When spending time with an escort, you may find that there are times when small talk and pleasantries are exchanged. However, there is an unspoken rule that professional escorts know not to ask personal questions about their clients personal lives. This unspoken rule also applies to their clients as well, asking personal and direct questions is taboo and mutual respect toward each others personal lives should remain personal.
In many cases, clients may spend an hour, an afternoon or even an overnight stay with their sex worker, therefore, there will many scenarios during that period that you will find chit chat and small talk will come into play.
Topics to Stay Away From
In general escorts and sex workers don’t take too kindly to personal questions that involve her personal life, some of these topics may involve asking her of her real name? How old she is? Where does she live? And, is she married or does she have a steady boyfriend?
All of these questions are way to personal, and are of a security breach for her, so, it’s always best to refrain from such personal questions when spending time with an escort or courtesan.
Other inappropriate questions that you should refrain from discussing with your sex worker, are topics surrounding politics and religion, these are best left alone as they may cause conflict or bad feelings.
Creating a Relaxed and Inviting Atmosphere
Many clients are nervous when first meeting with a sex worker, this may be because it’s their very first encounter with an escort, therefore, you may find yourself feeling nervous or shy and may find yourself accidentally asking her personal questions that will automatically get you off on the wrong foot, instead, it’s best to rehearse some appropriate questions that won’t offend or upset her and will help you to create a relaxed and inviting atmosphere for the both of you.
Don’t Forget Your Manners
Other clients who see sex workers and escorts regularly, sometimes may forget their manners and feel as though it’s their right to ask her personal questions, however you may have already learnt that it’s unacceptable and in some case that particular escort may refrain from seeing you again in the future if you ignore here requests.
Whatever the scenario may be, it would be in both of your best interests to create a relaxed, warm and inviting atmosphere, so that you both can relax and enjoy your time together.
Let your female escort know if any of the questions you are asking are offensive, personal or inappropriate, that way you can make an effort to find new topics that may be suitable to chat about instead.
Before You Engage in Small Talk with Your Escort
Before you unleash a thousand questions during your time with an escort or call girl, you may wish to compliment her first on her appearance and physical beauty, compliments will help to ease the initial discomfort in the air you may both feel.
Complimenting your lovely escort on the photos she supplied or the description in her ad that she spent time working on for you is a great place to start.
From there, you can let her know how sexy and beautiful she looks in person and how wonderful she smells when she greets you, flattery will most probably help you to get her to relax and open up to you.
If your female escort has gone to great lengths to dress up in sexy lingerie, proactive stocking and high heels for you, then it will most probably be highly acceptable to acknowledge the effort she has gone to for you.
Topics That Are Usually Acceptable to Chat About
So, that both the escort and the client’s personal lives are protected and respected, we have listed pleasant topics that are general, and are usually open for discussion, and hopefully won’t offend or upset anyone.
The topics that are listed below for your consideration and discussion, are merely suggestions, so before asking your escort any of these questions, simply let her know that if she finds any of them offensive.
Here Are 15 Small Talk Topic Suggestions
* In general, what type of food do you enjoy eating when you go out to a restaurant?
* Do you like to travel, and if so, what was your favourite country thus far?
* Do like to keep pets? And if so, what is your favourite type of pet?
* Do you prefer to live in big cities, coastal towns or the country?
* Do you have any hobbies that you like doing? If so, what are you favourites?
* Do you like to watch movies? What is your favourite movie of all time and why?
* Are you an indoor or outdoor type of person?
* What is your ideal season of the year, and why do you like that particular season?
* Is there something that you would like to do by a certain age? If so, why and by what age would you like to do it by?
* What is your ideal dream car?
* Do you like to go to concerts? If the answer is yes, then what was your favourite concert to date?
* Who would be your ideal dinner guest?
* Do you like to do karaoke? If so, what is your favourite karaoke song?
* What is your favourite breakfast order?
* what are you most grateful for in your life?
How did you go to the above small talk topic suggestions? Did you find any of them useful? Is so, which topics resonated with you the most?
The topic suggestions are great starting points to help your encounter with an escort are more relaxed and comfortable ones. The topic suggestions are just a few ideas to get you started, however, if you would like to find a few more that may resonate with you better, than you can find hundreds of them online.
Practising small talk with sex workers is also a great way to help your confidence with potential other women whom you may be interested in, but too shy to ask out on a date.
Good luck! Now you can relax knowing that you have some great topics sorted and ready to use the next time you see an escort.