Elise Graves

Ready to be tied and toyed with? Consider me the cat and you the mouse :)

As a professional practitioner of bondage-focused BDSM for over ten years, Elise has first-hand experience with the powerful, yet subtle, transformational nature of bondage. She credits her own bondage experience for serious advancements in her own personal journey of self discovery and evolution.

Elise believes that bondage is amazingly powerful. She has been hopelessly obsessed with bondage since first engaging with it.

She began seeing elements of power dynamics, contrasts, and humor throughout her life, always linking the association between bondage and real life. Viewing the psychology of the world through the eyes of bondage, made perfect sense. Bondage is basically a microcosm of real life. In one bondage session, a person has lived life in hyper drive, having accumulated the psychological experience of perhaps several years. This makes it a powerful tool for change and healing especially when guided by caring energy.

Elise wants to change how people perceive bondage. She wants to demonstrate how sexy agents for change can be. Elise’s goal is to show both BDSM-curious and seasoned practitioners how sexy it is to trust, to be a witness to a person’s suffering, to be vulnerable, and how exciting it can be to engage in exploration in one’s life. Bondage has the unique ability to offer these experiences and Elise Graves brings a deep understanding to this process.

Elise is honored to guide those who choose to embark on a journey of self-discovery through the art of bondage therapy.

The Look

Elise Graves is a 5'1", slender, 35 year old Caucasian woman with long Brunette hair and blue eyes.

She is available for Male, Female, Couples, and Trans.

Interests

My BDSM interests run wide and deep!

My personal favorite ways to explore BDSM are through:

Bondage: rope, shibari, heavy bondage, metal predicament, rubber and more!

Pain: electricity, corporal punishment, clamp/biting, and more!

Pleasure: sensually toying with levels of pleasure :)

Predicament: choosing between multiple stress-inducing activities for the purpose of highlighting your lack of control

Meditation: utilizing various methods to assist you in staying deeply in the moment, including control of your breath

Massage: as a certified MT, I enjoy using Massage as a gateway into a deeper relaxed state

and so much more!

Expectations

To schedule a session with me, visit my Bondage Therapy site to submit booking details. Please do not call me.

As my schedule is typically full, I generally schedule sessions at least a week in advance. I never accept same-day sessions.

I enjoy exploring BDSM with those experienced and novices alike all are welcome.

Other Cities

San Francisco